This collection of stories is written to give a voice to those who aren't focused on as much- family members of alcoholics. Alcoholism doesn't just affect the drinker. Downstream effects hurt everyone. We hope that these stories will provide a sense of community to those affected by alcohol's externalities, coupled with resources to help out. 

This page was made in cooperation with Al-Anon, Alcoholics Anonymous' subsidiary which focuses on providing a safe space for family members. Their website is linked below. In keeping anonymity, all names have been changed.

Mark's Story

"You didn't cause it, you can't control it, and you can't cure it. Ever."

Bethany's Story

"Alcoholism is a progressive disease, and so my childhood was different."

Susan's Story

"I made excuses for the drinker and never let him take responsibility for anything."

Jane's Story

"I felt shame at not being able to get on top of what I now saw as my problem: my husband's battle with the bottle."

Jay's Story

"While my mother’s drinking progressed, I became mentally unwell"

Mary's Story

"He died eight months later, and tried to forget all about it; about him, and I thought I could just move on."

Judy's Story

"I loved him so I trusted him. I didn't understand addiction"

Holly's Story

"Like the pebble tossed into the pond metaphor, the effects still ripple today."

Timothy's Story

 "To them, two children growing up in a disjointed household was a gold mine"

Al-Anon's website- learn about meetings and find local support groups

Living Sober's Website- further resources and testimonials